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Joyful peaceful rested refreshed

I didn’t even understand these words the last two years. How can you be rested as a mom? What is peace when toddlers are running back and forth? I was happy and full of joy for my twins and I’m wondering how to find joy in hobbies and life outside of my kids… If you’re struggling to find a new normal and looking for help, settle in my friend.. you’re welcome here. 💛 

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About Me

Hi, I’m Patti, Twin Mama & Self-care Guru

I am a blogger, and mental health advocate.I love my kiddos, and I realized the best way to love them is to love myself and take care of myself. Self-care is not just a trend it is a necessary tool to improve our wellbeing and maintain our mental health. Expect self-care and wellness tips, fun adventures and a place to lay down your worries and stress. No judgement over here my love. Your emotions and feelings are valid and heard. I hope you enjoy!